6th October, anything special?

6th October is just an ordinary day for many, but for us, this is a very special day, especially at 5.30pm --- a moment with mixed feelings for which we will never forget.

Three years ago this day, it was the last time we were able to feel Kitty's warmth and loveliness. Though we are physically apart, the memories are still very lively and clear. Tears might no longer be shed, but the heartache remains, especially during moments when we read of parents who lost their child.

Despite the change in our livelihood, Kitty's spirit can still find a space in our hearts, and it blends in well with the 3 other children we have. We strongly believe that each kid is a gift from God, with their own uniqueness, charm and is irreplaceable. Though their mission and time with us could vary, we are determined to stand firmly behind them to ensure that they can achieve their goals with flying colors.

Kitty, our dear, our love for you never fades!

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Lately, Goldie, Betty and Felix went to church to celebrate Saint Francis Xavier's Day....

 

 

 

 



Someone Special?

 

 

 

After serious thoughts, we have decided to take on an additional cat, mainly as playmate for Betty and hopefully would be a relief for Goldie. He is called Felix, a chocolate color British Shorthair. He joined us on 30th July when he was 4 months old.

 

The first few days of his arrival were nightmare to us. Initially,  we deeply regretted taking Felix, as Betty  was extremely depressed. She hid herself, whimpering at all times and was pretty defensive.  Our hearts tanked. We didn't realise she was so deeply hurt. On the other hand, Goldie appeared very relaxed, and accepted the baby brother very quickly.

 

After careful thoughts, we attributed Betty's behavior to her tender age. Being only 2.5 years old, its natural that her confidence in us is not firm/high as that of Goldie's. We reckoned she is worried that Felix might take up a large part of our time and attention. So, we decided to let her experience for herself that life is as normal, despite having one more cat around. We talked to all 3 children, telling them to love and respect each other, and specifically to Felix that he has to listen to advise from both sisters.

 

With the help of Feliway, the above seems to work, as Betty started to make steady daily progress by the latter part of the first week. Now, with Felix having joined us for a month, not only were Betty and Felix playing dash and wrestling together, Betty sometimes would lick Felix as well.

 

We are thankful to the Lord for this arrangement, and firmly believe that Goldie is highly instrumental in making the transition a success.

 

 

 

 

 

 

As a follow up on our latest charitable drive - the 19kg of Blackhawk dry cat food was being donated to 癌症Kitty 貓狗屋.